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B2German Grammar

German Reflexive Verbs

Reflexive verbs use a reflexive pronoun (sich) to indicate that the subject and object are the same person. Many everyday German verbs are reflexive that are not in English: sich freuen, sich erinnern, sich beeilen.

Reflexive verbs (reflexive Verben) are verbs where the action reflects back onto the subject. They always use a reflexive pronoun — in the infinitive form, this is sich: sich waschen (to wash oneself), sich freuen (to be happy).

Reflexive Pronouns

The reflexive pronoun changes based on the subject. For accusative reflexive: ich → mich, du → dich, er/sie/es → sich, wir → uns, ihr → euch, sie/Sie → sich. For dative reflexive: ich → mir, du → dir, er/sie/es → sich, wir → uns, ihr → euch, sie/Sie → sich. Note: only the ich and du forms differ between accusative and dative.

Accusative vs. Dative Reflexive

If the reflexive pronoun is the only object, it is accusative: Ich wasche mich. (I wash myself.) If there is another accusative object, the reflexive pronoun becomes dative: Ich wasche mir die Hände. (I wash my hands — literally: I wash to-myself the hands.)

True vs. Apparent Reflexive Verbs

True reflexive verbs can only be used reflexively: sich beeilen (to hurry), sich erkundigen (to inquire), sich weigern (to refuse). Apparent reflexive verbs can be used with other objects too: sich waschen (to wash oneself) — but also das Auto waschen (to wash the car).

Common Reflexive Verbs

Many German verbs are reflexive where English equivalents are not: sich freuen (to be happy), sich erinnern (to remember), sich vorstellen (to imagine/introduce oneself), sich fühlen (to feel), sich setzen (to sit down), sich interessieren für (to be interested in), sich entscheiden (to decide).

Word Order

The reflexive pronoun typically comes as early as possible — right after the conjugated verb in main clauses: Ich freue mich auf den Urlaub. In subordinate clauses or with inversion, it comes right after the subject: Morgen freue ich mich.

Reference Tables

Reflexive Pronouns

PersonAccusativeDative
ichmichmir
dudichdir
er/sie/essichsich
wirunsuns
ihreucheuch
sie/Siesichsich

Common Reflexive Verbs

VerbMeaningPreposition
sich freuento be happy / look forward toauf + Akk. / über + Akk.
sich erinnernto rememberan + Akk.
sich interessierento be interestedfür + Akk.
sich fühlento feel
sich beeilento hurry
sich vorstellento imagine / introduce oneself
sich entscheidento decidefür + Akk.
sich setzento sit down

Example Sentences

Ich freue mich auf das Wochenende.

I'm looking forward to the weekend.

sich freuen auf + accusative — reflexive pronoun 'mich'

Er wäscht sich die Hände.

He washes his hands.

Dative reflexive 'sich' because 'die Hände' is another accusative object

Kannst du dich daran erinnern?

Can you remember that?

sich erinnern an + accusative — true reflexive verb

Setzen Sie sich bitte!

Please sit down!

Formal imperative with reflexive sich

Common Mistakes

Ich wasche mich die Hände.

Ich wasche mir die Hände.

When another accusative object (die Hände) is present, the reflexive pronoun must be dative: 'mir', not 'mich'.

Ich erinnere an den Tag.

Ich erinnere mich an den Tag.

'Sich erinnern' is a true reflexive verb — the reflexive pronoun 'mich' cannot be omitted.

Ich freue mich für das Geschenk.

Ich freue mich über das Geschenk.

'Sich freuen über' means 'to be happy about' (something received). 'Sich freuen auf' means 'to look forward to' (something upcoming). 'Für' is incorrect with sich freuen.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are reflexive verbs in German?

Reflexive verbs use a reflexive pronoun (mich, dich, sich, uns, euch, sich) to show the subject and object are the same. Many common German verbs are reflexive where English equivalents are not: sich freuen (to be happy), sich erinnern (to remember).

How do you know if the reflexive pronoun is accusative or dative?

If the reflexive pronoun is the only object, it is accusative: 'Ich wasche mich.' If there is another accusative object in the sentence, the reflexive pronoun switches to dative: 'Ich wasche mir die Hände.' Only ich (mich/mir) and du (dich/dir) have different forms.

Where does the reflexive pronoun go in a German sentence?

In main clauses, the reflexive pronoun comes right after the conjugated verb: 'Ich freue mich.' With inversion, it comes after the subject: 'Morgen freue ich mich.' In subordinate clauses, it follows the subject: '...weil ich mich freue.'

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